The highest and highest level of sports, let's say, is to say that there are two athlets, one in the other's eyes, and one of them withdraws. And he said that’s it I think that's it. We deal with such valuable things that are not different from the ones we know, we develop the valuable resources and the way of seeing them. So we try to go into the world's understanding of why and in the understanding of the things that are outside of us, we try to read between the lines.
Now I would like to talk about a man’s topic. Of course, the
women are also very interested in it. A very serious man's question. I want to speak
to you about it. Namely about that man who draws borderlines. You have to be
able to draw borderlines for yourself and others.
And this is an easy question, because it is so aggressive,
such an aggressive thing to draw borderlines. How can you do this? And this is
a cultural question, how does it work? What are the basics of a man who is
capable of pulling borderlines? How can you do this well? This is an internal
and external expectation. You want to be like this. The woman wants you to be
like this. You can also be like this. However, you have a feeling that a man
cannot be like this due the society’s expectation, that a man who is a real man
is a toxic man who suppresses women. But it never was true, is not the right
way... This image says that a man always has a problem. This is not true.
There is a feeling that I am like this and there is the part
of the women, that a man has to do this. But there is an internal problem, and
they have to be like this, or they have to be like this, but how can we draw
borderlines? And we have to think about how to look like a man. What is he
capable of doing? What should he do? And I have to say in the beginning that I
have to say that what is the meaning of pulling a string? What is the meaning
of pulling a string? First of all, I have to know what kind of difficult,
familiar inner question is. As a man, as a woman, as a teenager. I have to know
what the right answer is.
Every answer, everything that has to be kept, every rule,
everything that cannot be passed, and what has to be counted, is something that
happens for the sake of something. To not lose it, to not overspin, to not get
tired, the those certain transformative creations, to make it happen. It can happen
if the energy and the power that you move on, remain on that fertile field that
is proper for the embodiment of your goal.
If you start to think that the string is not the reason why you want to pull a string because you want to make it harder, but there is a goal that can only happen if you keep the rules, if you don't keep them, then in the same time, you pull it back, pull it back somewhere, pull it back, bring it together with others, you lose your support in this, you lose the most effort, you get out of it, you get tired, you get burnout. Do we understand this? Well, you understand what it is, but how important it is, I know what those walls are for. That's why, because when you have to draw a borderline, then you have to be able to understand what you are in the service for. I know where the drawn borderline is.
I know where is that borderline.
What a serious spiritual development you must have to go through, isn't it? Till
you do not achieve that line what you must draw you can realize that was
enough. Was enough from procrastination, enough of the bad talk. it can go on for
a while, but once you’ll say we will stop here. If not, then the situation will
tip like that we will not be able to return from this. Here is the borderline.
There is needed a serious man to realize what is the purpose of those
borderlines, I know where are the borders, and then I draw those lines in such
a way that the act of drawing itself will have the power to create. One more
important aspect: most of all, those people who do it for the sake of some
higher goal have to build borderlines and restrictions for others. In other
words, you must know what you want to achieve, and you must have clear goals
regarding this.